Sweeping Your Side of the Street

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I often ask clients if they have “swept their side of the street”. If we envision our lives as a row of houses, we can imagine how each occupant is only responsible for clearing autumn leaves or snow from the area in front of their own property. They might look disapprovingly at the mess in front of the house across the street, but its upkeep isn’t really any of their business, and it certainly isn’t their responsibility.

 We can always help our neighbours, but we cannot do their work for them. If the mess is in someone else’s front yard, legally we’re not even allowed to go onto their property without permission!

 When issues arise in our lives, we need to ask ourselves if we’ve done whatever is most responsible in the given situation. Have we taken control over the things we CAN control? and allowed others to make their own choices? Have we lived by our values, without imposing them on others? See Nov 17th GYSPermission Coaching Tip of the Week

 When we’re able to take responsibility for our own lives and sweep our side of the street, life becomes more manageable. As we spend less time wrestling with the mess outside other people’s houses we are more capable of taking care of yourselves and can be proud to invite others over for a barbecue in our yard.

 Till next Tuesday

 

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